Self-Talk

Hello people!

I have a question for you today. How often do you talk with yourself? All alone?


I am sure we all do have a talk to ourselves, but most of the time, our talk is limited to self-pity and complaining about stuffs we do not posses.

But I am not asking this in that context.
My question is, how often do you actually have a conversation with your own inner self to seek few answers which you have no clue if anyone could even understand?

For me, I imagine my 10 year old self, in her two small pony tails, her weird smile sitting in front of me, and have a talk. Crazy, isn’t it? It’s the best thing!
And the question I ask ‘That Girl’ is always answered, by that 10 year old girl!

The question which follows is, how do you realize or hear what she answers or advise me? How will you come to know? HOW!?
The idea for me which always works is, the first thought, the first explanation that strikes my mind is the answer which I am always seeking for.

The best part is, the answer almost always makes sense and even if  it doesn’t sometimes, it at least calms my fears and thoughts that I goof up in my mind with.
That answer never strikes me when I keep over-thinking or complain about situations to myself. It happens when I genuinely ask that 10 year old self for an answer, for a guidance. And she always gives me with her 10 year old smile and shining eyes.

But,
Sometimes, the answers aren’t clear. Sometimes, I don’t even get an answer. I only see that girl smiling at me. Creepy. I let the question go with a belief that it isn’t the time for the answer to be revealed to me as of that moment.

This is my way of seeking the key to my mysterious questions. What’s your’s?

Try to question your 10 year old self. The one who was not afraid of the truths. Who was not afraid to learn about the truths.
Listen to the first thought that strikes your head and trust that thought and keep going. If for no one else, then, at least for that that 10 year old-self?

You are not alone and you are worth all the happiness. There is abundance. Hug yourself and smile often.
Be your own hero. Your own rescuer.
It is never the end until you stop asking questions and stop seeking for the answers.

So the next time you find yourself caught up in a storm and can’t find a way out, let go complaining and cursing your luck or destiny, but, start asking for a way out to yourself. You know your feelings, emotions and goals better than any other person.

 

– KinjalParekh. ❤👑

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Lucid Waves 💙

The room is lost within me tonight,
Darkness might replace for the fight by the night,
A spirit is souring through the sky,
But my tunes will hypnotize the entire sky.
Grief, envy and lust;
Eating up my entire crust…
Yet,
I look past the pain
Fighting to come back in my old-frame
But goes all in vain.
The night light casts it’s way
No light offered to my grave,
Yet again,
I get back to the melody
To make the spirit dance
In my lucid waves.

– KinjalParekh ❤

S T A R T

You. You’ve got to love yourself.
Don’t be nervous of being nervous. It is the proof that you are on your way to discover new truths, new secrets, new dimensions about yourself.
It is the proof that you are no longer hanging up to any ‘boredom’ but are living rather than just existing.
But be afraid. Be afraid of being afraid. The day you let your knees tremble just because you weren’t brave enough to question any happening or do your work – be it for the first time or ‘n’th time, you are no longing living the game.
You have got to stop letting things upset you which would not matter 2 years from now.
Start. Start with anything but start.
You see. It matters. Don’t give a damn if the start was an ace or went out of pace. But, start. With anything!
Start a conversation with the stranger in the train sitting right besides you who is reading a book.
Start dancing with no music on.
Start decorating your wall.
Start learning what you want to.
Start working on what you are dreaming to have tomorrow.
Start being to just ‘be’
Your life will throw things at you. Take initiative to take some efforts or a lots of efforts.
I don’t want to rant here about how important is.
You already do know that, atleast somewhere in the back of your mind.
So this post is a reminder.
To give it a chance. To let it happen. To make a change. To bring a change.
To let go the doubts you hold in your mind and for once, just for once make a move.
Just a step and I promise the rest will follow.
And if you fall down after getting up, don’t stay down.
Or else, sit back regretting to never stand up.
Jump higher instead.
And more importantly, do not cry or complain if you don’t have resources to start with.
Because there is ALWAYS a way out.
Find a temporary substitute, but Start.

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– KinjalParekh ❤👑

Bully

Moved by this poem of your’s!
Read this, everybody!!

three thousand worlds

Ignorant to the sunrise and the flower’s bloom,
As the world around you sinks in gloom,
You tremble before you enter hell’s gates,
Camouflaged in white painted walls;
where mockery & hatred plagued the tainted halls.
Surviving school is tough when you aren’t cool,
get pushed & thrown around like a fool.

Your self-esteem is crushed, confidence destroyed,
You cried and cried while the people enjoyed,
Tried to fight back but you were too weak,
Battered and scared, all hope is bleak.

Shunned out, running about,
how do you find someone to confide in,
when you can’t even find a corner to hide in?
Hide your tears but in vain,
consider throwing yourself in front of a train.

Years later, school’s over,
but in your mind you’re still a loser.
The battle is far from over, infact it just started,
this time, not with the bullies, but yourself.
You’ve become…

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Breaking the shackles. 💙

How can we bring a better world around of forgiveness and love, if we cannot even forgive ourselves or hold grudges to those who have wronged us?
If God himself forgave us long back, who are we to hold onto guilts and hurts?
But then, is forgiving enough?
Shouldn’t we even break off the ‘invisible wall’ that we build in the process.
The walls may stop people to enter ‘your zone’ but it also restricts you to move out of ‘your zone’. 
Tell me, how will you experience the shift, the change, the magic and the miracle if you do not let yourself move out of your zone?
Every being is made up of Love. There is no point holding on to grudges. 
Tell me, will you be fine to go to that very person’s funeral who wronged you along with those grudges in your heart? You could lie to me, but not to your inner self. Do justice to that inner self.
There is always some good in bad and some bad in good. Accept it and choose to react with Love. The purest and the greatest feeling.

You never know what good you might be missing by carrying the weight of being deceived inside you.
Break that wall and see youself exploding with a white light of love to all beings around you and inside you. Take a moment and feel how light and healed you feel when you consciously let the wall break and shine with Love

Don’t let someone else’s mistake be the reason you abandon the one who are genuine. Don’t let your guilt/regret be the reason for you not taking new chances. Don’t let the person who wronged you be the reason that ‘your wall’ stops the right one out which in turn could be wrong on your part. 
Don’t make the wall tradition stay. Throw your heart above the bar and watch your body flow.
Stop blocking people from entering your life. There is a difference in building a wall and being careful. Be careful but don’t be carried away. 
Chance is just a small term to ask for. And love, Love is a real huge term, rather a feeling which we say it out casually. Feel that huge thing with a heart of a child in you and don’t let the adult in you block it. 
Just let it go and the rest will follow. Trust me! 
It is easy.

– Kinjal Parekh. ❤👑

You can! 💯

​If falling down is a part of success, then getting back up once again is a ritual that follows. Then may it be the career you look up to or the spiritual path or may it be your personal issues. 

We live in a planet located within the outer limits of one of a hundred thousand million galaxies. How’s that for a shift in perspective? Are your troubles really that big? 

Everything happens for a reason. May be you don’t understand at this moment but you need to trust that in future, the dots will somehow connect. We are the Universe. A part of the greatest miracle. Do not let the negations win. Good times are forever and hard times are temporary. For it, they define the good times. Think how satisfied and blessed you are. Because it’s possible. Meditate and calm yourself. Do not let life control you. You can control your life. ❤ 

Try loving the questions themselves, the mysteries like locked rooms or some book written in a foreign language. At present, you need to live the questions. May be some distant day, you will yourself experience the answer.

It is how we choose to take the events occurring to us and around us.
There are no failures in life, only results.
There are no true tragedy, only lessons.
And there really are no problems, only opportunity waiting to be recognised be a person of wisdom.

Trust the process. Hang up on Faith. Hope is ‘I can do this’ but faith, Faith is ‘I will do this’.

Start saying YES to your life! Leave no dreams left behind when you leave this world. It matters how you are going to finish. Are you going to finish strong? Make a choice. You just have to decide. You are a miracle of  cosmic proportions. 

I want every person to aim for Ace. For I believe we all are One and we are somehow a part of every stranger’s life too. So why not wish for every individual?

Be open mided. Adapt with the changes and let go stuffs. Most of the times, the simplest thing can be the hardest thing for a person to do. But that is when Life clicks and you feel Peace within yourself. 

You are worth every good things in the Universe. Trust me. Keep going and trust yourself.

 StayStrong. 👑❤

– Kinjal Parekh. ❤👑

It isn’t really The End. ❤

It is not the ending that will haunt you,
But, the space where it may lie.
The things that simply faded without one final wave of goodbye.
Forgetting things you were sure you knew.
Or the books with torn out pages.
Or a question with no answer.
Forever in the corners
of our consciousness, they sit.
But, may be,
What if,
Those spaces are bliss for the moments.
May be those unsaid goodbyes are the proof that
It isn’t really the end.
May be, forgetting is the proof that
the room of faith, hope and magic is powerful enough to let a miracle happen.
May be the torn pages were just pages of the wrong books.
Cause darling,
You make Your World and We all are eventually One.
Happiness, love, gratitude are forever
and hard times just a temporary discomforts.
May be,
The un-answered question is the actual answer, that,
It isn’t really the end. 💕☄

– Kinjal Parekh.❤👑

Let’s Break Free! ❤

​Let’s keep our goals and dreams couscious.
Let our attention serve us and no longer be taken up by unnecessary or toxic things.
Let’s start giving out powers to capability and no longer to incapability.
Let’s set our intentions and expectations,
as we do… our path forms, let us be brave, discipline and consistent on this path.
Let us expect that The Divine will send us just the thoughts and occurrences that will allow our greatest Destiny to unfold.
In this physical diversion of distraction, let us be good and helpful in our individual evolution. 
To be remembered as a part of The Universe and also remember that there is no such thing as tiny thing.
Let us prove that Humanity is still alive, blessing people with Smiles.

– Kinjal Parekh. ❤👑

TheMagicInYou. 🌠❤

I’ll not talk anything theoretic but only practical. Trust me, it works. And I am still finding more to it now a days.
This is what I am talking about –

We all have imagined and know a universe outside us. The stars, planets, the entire galaxy! But what about the one inside us?

We all are waiting and wishing to have magical powers to do wonders, but sweetheart, trust me… God has given us those magical powers and has kept us unaware.

People who have discovered these powers have already started using this magic, manifesting things and have done so.

And and… the one’s who are trying to discover and seeking answers to their questions while discovering this magic can’t stop believing in this magic.

If you are on a high point to change the negations, your life process. If you want to have a control on the events, manifest it your way.. you need to have some patience and dedicate your time searching and discovering them. 

You’ll feel light. Trust me. 

In my next post soon, I’ll recommend the books, movies and videos that will definitely change your mind set. Take my words on that part. I won’t back off on those words. Small changes leads to a big one.

Give it a chance to have a glimpse of the power you possess already.

– Kinjal Parekh. ❤👑

A ray of Hope. 💌

Lying on the bed like an object,
An object but yet alive.
Alive but lost.
Lost yet having hopes.
Hopes… but full of fear.
“Fear?”
Fear to not get what belongs to me.
“Belongs to me?”
Yes.
“Sure?”
Definately 🙂
Sometimes, rather all the time, you need to listen to your heart…your inner voice. And that’s all I promise to do henceforth.

– Kinjal Parekh. 👑❤

Free bird. 💖

​In your escapes,
In your wanderings,
You’ll find a part of yourself..
which wasn’t really lost.

You just never knew you had one.
A part which chose to show itself..
only in the rarest of occasion.
That part, of a Free bird..
waiting to flap it’s wings,
And fly away from this world of torments.

– Kinjal Parekh. 👑❤

Uddne do. (Let her fly.) 🌟

(​Note : This poem is on feminism and is in ‘Hindi’.)

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Jiss ghar me hoti rehi be-izzati usski,
na jane kyu phir bhi vo vahi rahi.
Kya hoga iss chidiya ka me sochu,
jo pankh lagne ke pehle hi
apne pinjre se hakaal di gai.

Haan vohi chidiya jo parai hui nahi thi,
par parai kar di gai.
Socha bohut iss baar ussne bhi,
key, kar le samjhauta roshni se,
ke tuut jae vo kahi..saweree se.
Lekin insaan thi vo bhi fitraat  se,
samjhauta kar liya ussne phir,
par iss baar
khud se nahi…
Haatalo se.

-Kinjal Parekh. 👑❤

Monday. ❤

I know most of us hate Monday cause we gotto start a whole new week with the same old things. I know it sucks, but then…may be someone might have had their first kiss today. Someone might have found out that are officially ‘Cancer Free’ today. Someone might have finally finished their debut novel today. Someone might be living one of their best moment today. Lots and lots of interesting things might be happening today! Lets smile for them. It costs nothing, infact adds on your beauty. ❤
It’s gonna be a beautiful day to you too. 💝

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– Kinjal Parekh 👑

You can’t keep on feeling the way you do.

We all have hurt someone tremendously, whether by intension or accident.
We all love someone tremendously, whether by intent or accident.
It is an intrinsic trait and a deep responsibility, to be an organ or a blade.
But learning to forgive yourselves and others because we haven’t chosen it wisely is what makes us most human. We make horrible mistakes. That’s how we learn. We break love. That’s how we learn. And, it is inevitable.

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You. ✔

I know you are scared right now
may be you miss…
‘someone’
May be your heart hurts a little…
or a lot.
Or may be you are not quite sure
of who you are or
what you want.
But…
That feeling..you want back.
The one where it doesn’t seem like…
the whole world is against you.
This feeling. This is still here.
It never really left ..
And one day you’ll realise
that the only person…
who can find it again is ‘YOU’.

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Picture by – Krupa Shah. (@krups071996 – insta)

Give ‘time’ some ‘time’ to heal You. ❤

So here’s something that has been on my mind lately…something we all try to forget, something natural.
Being hurt and ungrateful! Someone can be madly in love with you and still not be ready. They can love you in a way you have never been loved. There is an extraordinary love, more love that we have never probably seen out here in this wide and wild universe.

But what when things go upside down? Heartbreaks? Hate all around?
Probably, the reason why people these days try to be ‘Over him/Over her’. One thing straight in your mind, if you do not feel greatful right now, that’s okay! You don’t have to convince yourself to be ‘Over it’. You are allowed to heal at your own pace and take your own time.
There might be a lot of chaos surrounding you and might be hard to see straight at things. If you aren’t feeling that, It’s Okay! That isn’t a crime! Donot atleast feel bad!
The acknowledgement in you is what you, or rather everyone needs to just be themselves.
By admitting this out loud, You embrace control over your feeling. No one can play with your feelings but you!
Untill you don’t stop from forcing yourself rather having a firm control, the boss is gonna be someone else.
This is life! People might screw you over. You might fight with the person you never thought you would. You might go through things that might be changing you. You will embrace yourself.
But, may be one day! You’ll just sit back, find your own moment, all alone…no one else but only you, and you will realize. Realize that stupid craps happen to people who can handle it. May be, that will form You, teach You, make You. And that then no one can want to change you, may be not even yourself.
Fair enough, right? So back up, Darling and live the life you’ll remember. ❤
You got all the powers in your hands.

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It’s a Journey; ain’t a Destination. ✔

You know what’s the problem with people? We are weird! Seriously! We all want to experience a big magic to solve all our problems; but the irony is that, that we refuse to believe in magic.
Ask yourself, are you LIVING or JUST EXISTING?
Give a meaning to your life! Help everyone. Learn to say Yes.
Do not forget we have a warm bed and get cooked meal at home.
I know few people might not be happy at this moment with their life. So do I always wonder when will I get everything I want, will accomplish all my bucket list goals, have the money factor…etc, etc! But then, on my journey I have met people, have even read about many people who have all of it but non of happiness.
If my bank balance would out weight my sense of purposes, then may be my only sense of purpose might be to achieve greater bank balance. I would somewhere be struggling to find happiness.
Let instead, Live the moment! Be Thankful. Give more than we receive. Future…future is going to happen. We all are gonna be what we wanna be one day, someday! But, we are also gonna leave this place someday, concentrate on living. Do not escape reality. BE REAL. Make sense to your life.
LIFE is a journey; ain’t a destination.
Don’t stop or get bothered  by what people will think about you. They are on their own journey too, Enjoy Yours!
Do not compare your “Behind the scenes” life with other’s “Highlight moments.”
What is in your Head & Heart shines brighter than what’s on your Neck or Wrist!
LOVE, GIVE & BE THANKFUL. ❤

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Be Thankful and Have Faith in You. ❤

When we lose ourselves because of negative emotions…jealousy, anger, hatred or whatsoever, there’s a lot of guilt that settles our way. Just get one thing in that you did your best at that very moment or you might have ended up doing something completely differently.
Remember what happened, learn from that and keep it as an experience to deal with if that happens again. Be gentle with yourself..with others! Be Thankful for every damn thing. Be and try to forgive yourself the hardest you can! Everything happens for a reason. Believe it religiously.
Remember that,
“Nothing leads to nothing, but;
Something leads to something.”
I agree people donot support ‘mediocrity’, you might be remembered as an ‘average’ person. But you will never be forgotten as the one who tried the hardest!
We have got to take ‘good’ with the ‘bad’, ‘smile’ with the ‘sad’.
Love everything and anything you get. Be thankful for every single minute. Learn from your mistakes rather than regretting. Be thankful everyday that you are blessed to wake up this morning. The only time you should look down on others is when you are helping to lift them up.

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