Self-Talk

Hello people!

I have a question for you today. How often do you talk with yourself? All alone?


I am sure we all do have a talk to ourselves, but most of the time, our talk is limited to self-pity and complaining about stuffs we do not posses.

But I am not asking this in that context.
My question is, how often do you actually have a conversation with your own inner self to seek few answers which you have no clue if anyone could even understand?

For me, I imagine my 10 year old self, in her two small pony tails, her weird smile sitting in front of me, and have a talk. Crazy, isn’t it? It’s the best thing!
And the question I ask ‘That Girl’ is always answered, by that 10 year old girl!

The question which follows is, how do you realize or hear what she answers or advise me? How will you come to know? HOW!?
The idea for me which always works is, the first thought, the first explanation that strikes my mind is the answer which I am always seeking for.

The best part is, the answer almost always makes sense and even if  it doesn’t sometimes, it at least calms my fears and thoughts that I goof up in my mind with.
That answer never strikes me when I keep over-thinking or complain about situations to myself. It happens when I genuinely ask that 10 year old self for an answer, for a guidance. And she always gives me with her 10 year old smile and shining eyes.

But,
Sometimes, the answers aren’t clear. Sometimes, I don’t even get an answer. I only see that girl smiling at me. Creepy. I let the question go with a belief that it isn’t the time for the answer to be revealed to me as of that moment.

This is my way of seeking the key to my mysterious questions. What’s your’s?

Try to question your 10 year old self. The one who was not afraid of the truths. Who was not afraid to learn about the truths.
Listen to the first thought that strikes your head and trust that thought and keep going. If for no one else, then, at least for that that 10 year old-self?

You are not alone and you are worth all the happiness. There is abundance. Hug yourself and smile often.
Be your own hero. Your own rescuer.
It is never the end until you stop asking questions and stop seeking for the answers.

So the next time you find yourself caught up in a storm and can’t find a way out, let go complaining and cursing your luck or destiny, but, start asking for a way out to yourself. You know your feelings, emotions and goals better than any other person.

 

– KinjalParekh. ❤👑

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​If falling down is a part of success, then getting back up once again is a ritual that follows. Then may it be the career you look up to or the spiritual path or may it be your personal issues. 

We live in a planet located within the outer limits of one of a hundred thousand million galaxies. How’s that for a shift in perspective? Are your troubles really that big? 

Everything happens for a reason. May be you don’t understand at this moment but you need to trust that in future, the dots will somehow connect. We are the Universe. A part of the greatest miracle. Do not let the negations win. Good times are forever and hard times are temporary. For it, they define the good times. Think how satisfied and blessed you are. Because it’s possible. Meditate and calm yourself. Do not let life control you. You can control your life. ❤ 

Try loving the questions themselves, the mysteries like locked rooms or some book written in a foreign language. At present, you need to live the questions. May be some distant day, you will yourself experience the answer.

It is how we choose to take the events occurring to us and around us.
There are no failures in life, only results.
There are no true tragedy, only lessons.
And there really are no problems, only opportunity waiting to be recognised be a person of wisdom.

Trust the process. Hang up on Faith. Hope is ‘I can do this’ but faith, Faith is ‘I will do this’.

Start saying YES to your life! Leave no dreams left behind when you leave this world. It matters how you are going to finish. Are you going to finish strong? Make a choice. You just have to decide. You are a miracle of  cosmic proportions. 

I want every person to aim for Ace. For I believe we all are One and we are somehow a part of every stranger’s life too. So why not wish for every individual?

Be open mided. Adapt with the changes and let go stuffs. Most of the times, the simplest thing can be the hardest thing for a person to do. But that is when Life clicks and you feel Peace within yourself. 

You are worth every good things in the Universe. Trust me. Keep going and trust yourself.

 StayStrong. 👑❤

– Kinjal Parekh. ❤👑

Give ‘time’ some ‘time’ to heal You. ❤

So here’s something that has been on my mind lately…something we all try to forget, something natural.
Being hurt and ungrateful! Someone can be madly in love with you and still not be ready. They can love you in a way you have never been loved. There is an extraordinary love, more love that we have never probably seen out here in this wide and wild universe.

But what when things go upside down? Heartbreaks? Hate all around?
Probably, the reason why people these days try to be ‘Over him/Over her’. One thing straight in your mind, if you do not feel greatful right now, that’s okay! You don’t have to convince yourself to be ‘Over it’. You are allowed to heal at your own pace and take your own time.
There might be a lot of chaos surrounding you and might be hard to see straight at things. If you aren’t feeling that, It’s Okay! That isn’t a crime! Donot atleast feel bad!
The acknowledgement in you is what you, or rather everyone needs to just be themselves.
By admitting this out loud, You embrace control over your feeling. No one can play with your feelings but you!
Untill you don’t stop from forcing yourself rather having a firm control, the boss is gonna be someone else.
This is life! People might screw you over. You might fight with the person you never thought you would. You might go through things that might be changing you. You will embrace yourself.
But, may be one day! You’ll just sit back, find your own moment, all alone…no one else but only you, and you will realize. Realize that stupid craps happen to people who can handle it. May be, that will form You, teach You, make You. And that then no one can want to change you, may be not even yourself.
Fair enough, right? So back up, Darling and live the life you’ll remember. ❤
You got all the powers in your hands.

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It’s a Journey; ain’t a Destination. ✔

You know what’s the problem with people? We are weird! Seriously! We all want to experience a big magic to solve all our problems; but the irony is that, that we refuse to believe in magic.
Ask yourself, are you LIVING or JUST EXISTING?
Give a meaning to your life! Help everyone. Learn to say Yes.
Do not forget we have a warm bed and get cooked meal at home.
I know few people might not be happy at this moment with their life. So do I always wonder when will I get everything I want, will accomplish all my bucket list goals, have the money factor…etc, etc! But then, on my journey I have met people, have even read about many people who have all of it but non of happiness.
If my bank balance would out weight my sense of purposes, then may be my only sense of purpose might be to achieve greater bank balance. I would somewhere be struggling to find happiness.
Let instead, Live the moment! Be Thankful. Give more than we receive. Future…future is going to happen. We all are gonna be what we wanna be one day, someday! But, we are also gonna leave this place someday, concentrate on living. Do not escape reality. BE REAL. Make sense to your life.
LIFE is a journey; ain’t a destination.
Don’t stop or get bothered  by what people will think about you. They are on their own journey too, Enjoy Yours!
Do not compare your “Behind the scenes” life with other’s “Highlight moments.”
What is in your Head & Heart shines brighter than what’s on your Neck or Wrist!
LOVE, GIVE & BE THANKFUL. ❤

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Be Thankful and Have Faith in You. ❤

When we lose ourselves because of negative emotions…jealousy, anger, hatred or whatsoever, there’s a lot of guilt that settles our way. Just get one thing in that you did your best at that very moment or you might have ended up doing something completely differently.
Remember what happened, learn from that and keep it as an experience to deal with if that happens again. Be gentle with yourself..with others! Be Thankful for every damn thing. Be and try to forgive yourself the hardest you can! Everything happens for a reason. Believe it religiously.
Remember that,
“Nothing leads to nothing, but;
Something leads to something.”
I agree people donot support ‘mediocrity’, you might be remembered as an ‘average’ person. But you will never be forgotten as the one who tried the hardest!
We have got to take ‘good’ with the ‘bad’, ‘smile’ with the ‘sad’.
Love everything and anything you get. Be thankful for every single minute. Learn from your mistakes rather than regretting. Be thankful everyday that you are blessed to wake up this morning. The only time you should look down on others is when you are helping to lift them up.

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Let’s spread love!

I love being nice…helping people! I mean…yes..what’s wrong with that? Honestly, it takes around 20 seconds out of my entire day to compliment someone. I love it when they look and act in that surprising way and are like “ME?” and i am just like “YES YOU!” God! It’s soo cute!
How can people be mean? Being nice is soo much fun!
I once read a paragraph: ↓
“Cinderella walked on broken glasses, Sleeping Beauty let her whole life time pass, Belle fell in love with the hideous beast, Jasmine married a comman theif, Areil walked on land for love and life, Snow White barely escaped the knife.”
It was all about blood, sweat, tears…because love means facing your Biggest Fear! These lines got such a deep meaning!
When we are happy…we do not just glow. Instead, we will be unknowingly or may be knowingly radiating the power of a million sun rays! Having a soft heart in this world is courage; not weakness. Altogether sharing our happiness our hearts gets lifted above heaven! Out of all those dark holes there are bright beautiful surprises waiting for YOU.

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